"I don't even know what they go over in class. My daughter kicks me out as soon as the class starts. She is probably embarrassed of me," shared the mother of our student. Yes, some children are uncomfortable practicing in the presence of their parents. After all, they perceive a teacher differently from their mother.
In our online school, there are two learning formats - group and individual lessons. In the case of traditional school, everything is clear - parents stay outside the classroom door. But what about online classes? Let's discuss whether parents need to be present at such classes.
When should parents observe a lesson?
- If a child is slow to make contact with new people, the presence of parents can help him or her to relax. In addition, adults can help them not to be confused when they don't know the answer to a teacher's question.
- Parents are welcome to stay in the room if they wish to check the quality of the lesson, especially in the first lessons. To make sure the teacher is competent, observe his/her speech and ability to keep the child's interest.
- By occasionally attending the lessons, parents can get an idea of how the child is learning. And after the lessons, they can offer help if their child has difficulties. They can also discuss with the teacher how to work through difficult areas so that more attention can be paid to them.
- If there may be technical problems, such as unstable internet. A pre-school child may be confused or simply not tell their parents that the lesson has been interrupted. In this case, you should make sure that the technology is OK.
In what cases should parents leave?
- Some children feel uncomfortable in the presence of a parent. They may be distracted by the adult and this will make it difficult for them to concentrate on the activity.
- The child can tell the teacher "children's secrets"if trust has been established. Children do not always want their parents to hear them speak during class. In addition, this can make the other students uncomfortable and uncomfortable.
- Parental presence can also limit a child's autonomy and prevent them from developing skills of self-discipline and responsibility.
What can be recommended
Before starting the class, discuss with your child what he or she would prefer. He or she may ask you to be present at the first sessions to get used to the teacher. As their rapport develops, you can go into another room, leaving the door open. When the child no longer needs help, you can leave them alone. By taking the child's views and needs into account, the most effective and comfortable learning process can be established.
Palme School classes are online and parents make their own decision about attendance. We do Russian language and other subjects in Russian with children from 4 to 14 years old. The introductory lesson is always goes along with the parentand it's free to try.
